The virtue of silence while learning about Jesus in Ephesus

Grappling with 1 Timothy 2:11-15

A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness. But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet. For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman, being deceived, fell into transgression. But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint._ — 1 Timothy 2:11-15

In Roman and Jewish culture in the First Century, silence was a virtue. It demonstrated self-control. This was especially true of people of lower social ranking in the company of those of higher status.

In Roman philosophical tradition, self-mastery and silence reflected discipline and Jewish wisdom literature praised restraint in speech, especially for those not in authority (Proverbs 10:19; Sirach 13:21-23).

All else being equal, men were of higher status than women, but there were times when women outranked men. Women could own property, become wealthy, gain status, and become patrons and gain influence. Such a woman would be of a higher status than a man with no wealth or influence.

For example, the female running the household would be of a higher status than the male servant. The aunt with greater wealth and prestige as a civic patron would be of a higher status than the brick-layer nephew. In this case, the nephew should remain silent when crossing paths with his aunt unless she speaks to him first.

Perhaps when you were young, you were told, “Children should be seen and not heard.” That was the world of antiquity for all people of unequal status.

In Ephesus, where Timothy supervised the body of believers in the region, some women converts were likely former devotees of the cult of Artemis. In Ephesus, women were exalted, especially in a religious setting. In the cult, the goddess spurned male gods and sought a human male consort.

Important context: Some strands of Artemis tradition effectively placed the goddess as ‘first’ and supreme, in tension with the Genesis creation order.

The church in Ephesus likely had some women under weekly instruction who were bold and opinionated beyond their training, espousing false doctrine.

The Greek word (authenteō) used for “assume authority” can also be translated as “dominate” or “usurp authority.” This suggests Paul was not establishing a blanket prohibition on women teaching, but addressing a specific problematic dynamic of domineering behavior.

We know from 2 Timothy that Ephesus was a hotbed of doctrinal strife, from proto-Gnosticism to false claims that the general resurrection had already taken place (2 Timothy 2:17–18).

Just as Jews who accepted Christ as Lord and Savior faced some challenges in putting off their cultural interpretations of scripture, former pagans faced their own challenges in sorting out the difference between Christ and the temple life they were escaping.

The problem Paul needed to address in Ephesus was that women were speaking up and over men. There was also an issue of false doctrine. The passage suggests that some women held onto many of the false beliefs learned from the cult. Chief among the false beliefs, it seems, is that women held a loftier position in a spiritual context than men, hence the reference to Genesis. This belief encouraged them not only to speak up but also to do so with boldness, which in their minds was spiritually justified. This not only subverted cultural norms, which Paul recognized as universal, but was not supported by scripture nor in the value system Paul taught: In Christ, there is no male or female, slave or free, Jew or Gentile. (Galatians 3:28)

In keeping with cultural norms, Paul would expect that all initiates (in this context, likely always lower status) sit quietly, listen, and learn, but in Ephesus, women, steeped in cultic training, were speaking up and contradicting scripture and its exposition, thus it became a problem for Paul to address directly.

The early church certainly didn’t read 1 Timothy the way today’s complementarians read it. In the age of the Apostolic and Patristic Fathers, women led house churches, and in the third and fourth centuries, inscriptions indicate that women were ordained as presbyters. The Council of Laodicea, circa 360 AD, banned the ordination of women, confirming that, up to that time, women were ordained.

We also need to set Paul’s statements here (and in 1 Corinthians 14) against the roles women occupy in his letters, both teaching and leading throughout Asia Minor. There is Phoebe, a deacon whom he recommends to the Roman church, and Prisca, listed as a fellow worker. Junia is described as a fellow prisoner, “well known to the apostles” (some scholars believe she was an apostle). Paul also highlights the service of Tryphaena, Tryphosa, and Persis, who are “workers in the Lord,” and Euodia and Syntyche, whom he considers “fellow coworkers.” Among the leaders of house churches, Paul also mentions, were women such as Lydia, Nympha, Chloe, and Priscilla and Aquila, who led a church together

Phoebe, in particular, illustrates how a woman’s high social status (as a patron) could grant her greater standing than many men in Roman culture. As a patron to many (a strong indication she was abundantly wealthy), she was the one most likely to command the public sphere or lead the conversation. Men of lower status (her clients) would be expected to remain silent or deferentially wait until she invited them to speak. Paul, as an Apostle, possessed a unique spiritual authority that trumped earthly status within the Christian community. In the general public, and given his well-stated malleability to circumstances, he would have shown Phoebe deference.

Critically, Paul’s lists of spiritual gifts have no gender restrictions. The implications of Galatians 3:28 suggest that leadership is not limited by gender, race, or status. While his letters can seem ambiguous, he frequently praises women’s leadership, even describing their work using the same language he uses for his own ministry. Notably, limitations on women’s leadership appear in only one of his twelve letters, raising the question: if this were truly crucial, why wouldn’t he address it consistently?

The implication is clear: in his heart, Paul was an egalitarian. But egalitarianism does not negate the social norm of respect nor the Christ-like posture of serving rather than exalting oneself (Philippians 2:5-8). A natural order of society, and in worship, based on mutual respect, is an act of service.

His pastoral concern is also apparent throughout the sweep of his epistles: A central objective in Paul’s instructions to churches and bishops was ensuring that a new Christian community not needlessly offend the surrounding Jewish or Roman society on “secondary matters” (matters of custom or etiquette that do not compromise the core gospel message).

Peter says much the same in his first epistle in chapter 2 when he encourages believers to live as exiles in Babylon, “Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.” He goes on to explain that, by obeying the emperor and governors, you silence ignorant people. He says, “Show proper respect to everyone.”

Given the cultural context and the situation in Ephesus, it should be clear that far from a universal declaration that women are not to hold leadership positions in churches, 1 Timothy 2:11-15 is dealing strictly with a local hot-button issue that disrupts order in the church in Ephesus.

What Paul was saying was that regarding women in the Ephesus church: “Let a woman learn in a quiet and submissive manner. I do not, however, permit her to teach with the intent to dominate the man. She must be gentle in her demeanor.”

In this way, Paul does not contradict what he says about women elsewhere in his epistles. He preserves the dignity of women while providing rules to maintain cohesion and order within a church facing a specific problem (1 Corinthians 14:33, 40). The lesson for us today has nothing to do with women teaching and preaching, but how do we keep our churches focused on the cross and not on who didn’t bring a dish to the potluck.

For Further Reference:

– Finding Phoebe, by Susan E. Helen (primary source)

– Linda L. Belleville, “Teaching and Usurping Authority: 1 Timothy 2:11–15,” in Discovering Biblical Equality: Biblical, Theological, Cultural & Practical Perspectives.

– Linda L. Belleville, “Women in Ministry: An Egalitarian Perspective,” in Two Views on Women in Ministry.

– John and Chou MacArthur Abner, ed., Think Biblically: Recovering a Christian Worldview.

– Drake Williams, “Paul the Apostle, Critical Issues,” in The Lexham Bible Dictionary

– Graham Joseph Hill et al., Holding Up Half the Sky: A Biblical Case for Women Leading and Teaching in the Church

– Mark J. Keown, Discovering the New Testament: An Introduction to Its Background, Theology, and Themes: The Pauline Letters

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